I will tell you that I looked long and hard to find someone who had many of the same qualities that I have...someone who

has the look that I think is more classy, sexy and sophisticated and not trashy. This is the look that I think I have, also. I don't want people to look at me and think, "She's a slut." I want to save those opinions for the bedroom.

I don't get into pain, humiliation, hardcore domination, or hardcore submission. I am sensual and nurturing by nature and those things are just not in my personality. If those are the kinds of things that excite you, I think that's perfectly fine. Each of us is turned on by something different. That's what makes life fun and interesting and there's someone out there for everyone.