... really an extension of my imagination attempting to give me that mental edge to a sexual experience. Fantasizing about something "taboo" is really your mind trying to provide a certain imagery, which will enhance the underlying feelings for that particular sexual need. In fact, a real life expression of the same "kinky" image would have the opposite effect.

For example, role-playing is a popular fantasy: the little girl, mommy or daddy, next-door neighbor, co-worker, the teacher, and on and on. These "taboo fantasies" each represent a mental image that evokes a particular emotion, which impacts the sexual experience.

The "Mommy" is a way for the man to become submissive and allow himself to be nurtured and cared for in a safe and comforting way. He doesn’t really want to be sexual with his real life mother – in fact, the thought is usually revolting.

Having me play the role of the little girl and him play Daddy allows the mind to experience the feeling of innocence and submissive eroticism.

Being with the secretary, the wife’s best friend, or little sister, etc, is a means to an end to put the mind in a state of imaginative eroticism where by the act of masturbating is enhanced by those mental images.

When a man asks me to be his wife’s best friend or to play his wife having sex with another man, he is trying to obtain a mental edge to fuel his lust and release. In reality, he doesn’t usually want his wife to have sex with his friend or to experience any of these things – but the fantasy is very tantalizing.

So the use of healthy taboo fantasizing can be erotic and intoxicating to the sexual experience, and I just love to explore those fantasies and boundaries. That being said, we must always remember the difference between fantasy and reality. The lines are distinct and must never cross.

Now, I urge you to explore and enjoy your fantasies in this healthy and exciting environment, with no feelings of guilt or misunderstanding. Share them with me so that we can enjoy them together.